Controlling, self-control and staying in control

 This page is about Control and learning self control is fairly simple if you make a commitment to doing the right thing. Controlling other people is never a good idea because people obviously like their Free will. Self control is what we'll be talking about here. Self-control is essential for success, comfort and a happier life. When people loose self-control they usually start trying to control others for some strange reason. 
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Self-control is essential to succeed in life. Trying to control people will only get you in trouble but once you're on the right path you can teach people to follow in your path. Be Good to Yourself and be Good to others and You will find the control You seek.
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The first step in learning self-control  is to realize that It is your Body and mind …You can and will control it as soon as you choose to. Self control is something you must pursue in a determined and aggressive way. Loosing self control leads to a life of poverty , stress, Prisons (of many kinds) and other things that just make life very frustrating. When you learn your faults and things that you're very good at, you will learn how to control yourself in a much better way. Self control is not found by controlling other.

How to gain Self-control

Understand that you will be with yourself for the rest of your life…and you should learn how to control your own body before someone else does. There are a lot of control freaks out there who have some sort of radar that finds people with little self control and manipulate them into becoming their puppet. At times people cant tell that people are actually controlling them but they are being used and controlled by others. There are many expert manipulators who can have you at their finger tip until you find self control.

Set undesirable or painful CONSEQUENCES when ever you loose control of yourself. This will teach your mind to do the right thing. IF your brain feels pain it will do whatever it takes to avoid feeling pain again (don't do it to strangers ... that's illegal). of course Hurting others (emotional or physically) doesn’t work unless it's legally okay. Remember to set consequences so that you encourage yourself to change.

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